![]() This will go a long way for them to see their real worth through their own eyes and not through the eyes of others. Affirm them through your words and do let them know what you appreciate about them. On that heartfelt note, I would like to say to everyone who may have a Type 2, 3 and 4 in their life: show them that they are loved for who they are and that they are enough. Appreciate them and with a grateful heart, tell them how much they mean to you in your own special way. Notice the people who have stepped up and have shown you that they love and see you for who you really are. ![]() To our Type 4s, I would like you to know that open your eyes (and your heart) to the ways that people in your life are already affirming who you really are. In a society where feelings are often brushed aside for efficiency, Type 4s often feel isolated and misunderstood. Type 4s often feel that they are unworthy of being loved – that their deep emotions causes people to leave them, instead of seeing their emotions as who they authentically are. You are worth the time to get to know and to be loved. Take a moment to stop and appreciate yourself. There is no need to achieve and do more to be deserving of love. From young, they believed that the love they get from their parents is linked to what they achieve, and that without these achievements, they are not worthy to be loved because of their weakneses and flaws.īut I would like to tell our Type 3s that you can be loved for who you are – that your flaws just make you human. The Type 3s are always on the move and when asked if they want to be loved for who they are, they take a really long pause. “It is okay to be loved for who you are, despite your weaknesses and flaws.” You are deserved to be loved because you are lovable in your own ways, and not because of the help you give. ![]() So here is my invitation for the Type 2s – start loving yourself more and see your own worth, despite others not needing you. This is also why when their help is rejected, they get defensive and stubborn in even acknowledging that the help they want to offer may not be the help that is needed at that time. However, this is where the 2s become intrusive and needy. They see that as the only way to justify their worth to be loved. “You are worthy to be loved for who you are, whether we need your help or not.”Īt a young age, the Type 2 learns that in order to get the attention and love they so badly crave for, they need to put themselves in a position to offer help to others around them. This week, we turn our attention to the heart-centered Type 2s, 3s and 4s. Last week, we focused on what messages the gut-centered Type 1s, 8s and 9s want to hear about themselves. ![]()
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